It is impossible for us to stand out..the moment we stand out we tend to find people who have stood out like us…after standing out from one group… we tend to form groups again…the moment we become a part of a group..we fall back to the same level…then we have formed our own society again, after standing out from one society..we will make rules and feel safe adhering to them….
This is because we have forgot to approval ourselves. We have forgot to love ourselves and accept ourselves as we are. We have doubts even if we have stood first among many. This shows how shaky we are. Even when we are No 1 we need approval. We need a crowd. We need a society.